bring-back-the-love-of-your-life-2No relationship is perfect these days, but you can make your partnership more enjoyable for each of you with effort. After all, relationship psychology is all about discovering ways to maintain a balance that stops one or both partners from becoming disillusioned with the union. If you and your partner are already broken up, then using similar relationship psychology principles can also help you to get your ex back.

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Relationship psychology is about each partner in the relationship learning how to recognize destructive or unhelpful patterns that could potentially be driving your partner away. The unfortunate part about most couples is that they often want the other person to think the same way as they do. The truth is that men and women have very different ways of communicating those things they need or want.

Women need to understand that men place more value on actions rather than words. This means a woman who continually tries to get her partner to address issues in the relationship by talking about them or arguing about bad behavior is almost certain to see an increase in negative patterns.

Instead of talking or arguing your way through a problem with your partner, try using a more psychological approach. It has been found that men respond more positively to your actions. They want to know that they are able to make you happy. A man who is always faced with an upset partner will begin to think there’s nothing they can do to make you happy, so he will withdraw even further from you, even to the point of breaking up.

However, if he is constantly with a confident, happy partner who is a pleasure to be around, he’s less likely to withdraw. In fact, he’ll most likely draw closer because he enjoys being with you. Men in this situation will do whatever they can to make sure you are happy all the time. If you find it hard to raise your self-confidence, then give yourself a mini-make over or spend some time doing things you enjoy. When you feel good about yourself, you will radiate that confidence outwardly as well which will make him feel good.

Men need to understand that women have slightly different emotional triggers than they do. Women want the man they love to place enough value on her to really listen to what she’s saying. If you feel your partner is pulling away from you, then sit down with them and just listen for understanding.

Men need to ask questions about what your partner has just said and then take notice of her responses. Men need to learn how to listen attentively without allowing their mind to wander off. This will help their partner to feel more loved and respected, which will lead them in time to be happy and a joy to be around.

These primary differences in relationship psychology between men and women are things you can work on to strengthen your existing relationship and they will also work equally well if you are trying to get your ex back.

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