The best way found to get your ex back is…

Bait Her Back…to determine why your ex left you in the first place and correct the problem. Normally, it is easier said than done, but with the awesome Jenna James Bait Your Ex Back course, getting your ex back is the easy part. The hardest part is getting your ex committed once again to you forever.

You don’t just want your ex back, you also want him or her back forever, right?

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Well, it’s not as hard as you think when you follow the system in the course, but you are probably over-thinking how difficult it is to get your ex back. And here is where a paradox thinking comes in…

THE HARDER YOU TRY TO GET YOUR EX BACK, THE MORE LIKELY YOU’LL LOSE YOUR EX FOREVER

Sounds crazy, uh?

The harder you try to talk, the more you text, the more Facebook messages you leave strangely enough usually stops your ex from wanting to get back together with you.

I’m not saying you can just sit in a chair doing nothing and you’ll get your ex begging for you back! But, the best way to get your ex back is actually quite effortless (when you follow the advice in the books Bait Him Back or Bait Her Back) as you make your ex do the work chasing you.

You really have two options: change your situation by getting Jenna James Bait Him Back/Bait Her Back course or continue doing what you’re doing now (which clearly is not working).

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Bait Him BackAre you looking for an easy way to Mend a Broken Heart?

At first glance mending your broken heart appears impossible. After all, you are dealing with strong feelings of sadness, anger, and desperation that are influencing how you live now. Everything you’ve known and become accustomed to has turned your life into turmoil, and the person you usually turn to in a moment of crisis is the person who is causing all your pain. So how in the world can you easily mend your broken heart?

You must first abandon that which triggers and perpetuate your painful emotions. Relinquish that “couple” mentality. By this, I mean you need to stop thinking that you are part of a couple and instead focus on yourself as an independent person with your own life to worry about.

Think about it for a while. Here are some common thoughts that might trigger a sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach:

  • Who will I be spending my Friday night with?
  • I have to attend the Thanksgiving dinner alone.
  • He/she was the first one I called right after I left of work.
  • My bedside is now empty.
  • Why should I cook the meal if I am the only one here eating it?

The above examples reminds you of the relationship. Since the relationship has ended, having these thoughts only remind you of what you do not have and rubs salt into your broken heart.

In order to get over your broken heart, you need to start thinking like a single person again. You are not really going to keep missing your “other half.” Your mindset should be that you are a complete person as a single; and yes you would love to date your ex again, but you are not vulnerable because he or she no longer wants to be with you. You need to stop looking at yourself as part of a unit, so you can put yourself in a position to nurse your broken heart back to good health. Otherwise, you will not be able to allow yourself to break the cycle where every memory or routine stings an open wound.

You are saying to yourself this all sounds great theoretically, but how in the world do you go about doing all this?

There are many secrets discussed in Bait Him Back and Bait Her Back.

Here I have included some quick examples found in the books.

It is vital that you cease contacting your ex for a substantial amount of time. Nothing keeps that “couple’s mentality” in your thoughts more than seeing your ex immediately following your break up. Focus on yourself for a change and your own interests, and let loose of what your ex is doing.

You will be surprised at what a few casual dates can do for you. Do not sit around in your pajamas all day reminiscing about the good times because this will only impede your growth. When you do make contact, you’ll have nothing to say for yourself.

If your ex asks what you have been doing, you do not want to say, “I’ve just been missing you.” That will be a total turn off. It is much better for you that you evolve in spite of this breakup rather than becoming victim to it. Show your ex that you have grown and added to yourself as a single. This may help your ex regret their initial decision to break up with you. This is a secret to getting your ex wanting to be with you again.

Your heart can be repaired and there are easy, specific, proven techniques to do just that. It is when your mind gets in the way that your heart remains broken.

Again, the secret is to get your ex wanting you back. Learn more by getting one of these courses I highly recommend: Bait Him Back and Bait Her Back.

You can now get the proven system to win your ex back.