The Magic of Making Up

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All relationships have the occasional set back, and unfortunately some of those set backs do occasionally end in a breakup, separation or divorce depending on the nature of the union. Just because the relationship has terminated does not mean you were ready for it.


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If you want to get back together with your ex, you need to help arrange a time and place that the two of you can brainstorm solutions that actually address the problems in your relationship. This needs to be done in an open listening environment without arguments. You should deal with the problems without attacking each other personally.

In other words, if you want to be the catalyst you and your ex need to get back together, you need to take charge of rekindling the relationship rather than acting desperate and sorry for yourself.

So what is the best solution for someone who wants to renew their relationship?

1. If you want to be the catalyst you and your ex need to get back together, you must determine what caused the relationship to dissolve in the first place.

2. If you want to be the catalyst you and your ex need to get back together, then you need to calm yourself down so that the drama can subside and so there are no feelings of desperation in play. You need to be calm as you determine whether or not the relationship is really meant to be.

3. If you want to be the catalyst you and your ex need to get back together, the next thing that you need to do is sit down with your ex and tell her you are interested in rekindling the relationship. Try to determine her reaction before you really put energy and time into making things work again. Is she ok with the idea to get back together?

4. If you want to be the catalyst you and your ex need to get back together, then you must be ready to do a lot of talking, negotiating and working things out. Your relationship is not going to fall back together overnight, so be prepared to put in the time and energy to get back together.  You should also do some serious thinking and communicating while you put your plan of action together.

At the end of the day, just wanting to get back together with your ex will not happen by itself. You need to be willing to put in some serious time and energy to make it happen. The more energy you put into it, will improve your chances of rekindling the lost love.